A California congressman is now caught in the middle of a widening Capitol Hill ethics storm after admitting he was unfaithful to his wife, following reports that investigators are reviewing allegations tied to sexual misconduct.
Rep. Jimmy Gomez, a 51-year-old Democrat from California, acknowledged what he called “personal mistakes outside my marriage” after CNN reported that the House Ethics Committee has been examining allegations involving the lawmaker. The inquiry reportedly began after an April New York Post story claimed Gomez had been seen kissing a female congressional aide who worked for another member of Congress during a summer party in 2023.
At the time, Gomez’s office denied the alleged incident, calling the accounts “not true.” But in a statement to CNN on Tuesday, Gomez admitted to infidelity while insisting his actions were consensual and did not violate the law or House ethics rules.
“Years ago, I made personal mistakes outside my marriage that have caused real pain to my wife and family,” Gomez said. “Although my actions were consensual in nature and haven’t violated the law or House ethics rules, that doesn’t diminish the impact that these mistakes have made on those I care about the most.”
The admission instantly turned what had been a tabloid-fueled allegation into another embarrassing public reckoning for Congress, where lawmakers in both parties have faced mounting scrutiny over their private behavior, workplace conduct, and relationships with staffers.
According to CNN, the House Ethics Committee began looking into Gomez after the Post reported on the alleged kissing incident. One source told CNN that, while reviewing that story, the panel uncovered additional allegations of sexual misconduct involving the congressman, prompting a broader review.
Gomez has said he will cooperate with the committee.
“I take full responsibility and have committed myself to working through the pain privately with my wife and family,” he said. “I sought professional assistance to help re-center and heal the relationships that mean everything to me, and move forward with the honesty, transparency, and respect that everyone deserves from the people they love.”
The controversy is politically painful for Gomez, who has built a public image around progressive causes and family-focused policy issues. He shares a son with his wife, Mary Hodge, and used his statement to apologize directly to the people closest to him.
“I sincerely apologize to my wife, family, friends and the people that I have the privilege to serve,” Gomez said. “My wife and I will work through our family matters privately, but I am deeply sorry for the pain and embarrassment that I brought into our lives.”
The reported party at the center of the initial allegation was allegedly hosted by former California Rep. Eric Swalwell, a Democratic colleague and one-time close ally of Gomez. Gomez had served as co-chair of Swalwell’s gubernatorial campaign before stepping down after Swalwell faced his own disturbing allegations, which Gomez described as “the ugliest and most serious accusations imaginable.”
Swalwell resigned from Congress and suspended his campaign for California governor in April after allegations of rape and sexual abuse came under scrutiny.
The latest Gomez controversy lands at a time when the House Ethics Committee is dealing with misconduct allegations across party lines. Last month, the committee confirmed it was also investigating Republican Rep. Chuck Edwards of North Carolina over sexual harassment allegations after reports claimed he made female staffers uncomfortable.
Edwards has denied wrongdoing. His campaign consultant, Paul Shumaker, called the allegations “baseless” and said they were designed to influence the campaign and settle political scores. Edwards himself reportedly dismissed the accusations as “horses–t.”
The bipartisan nature of these scandals has fueled frustration among voters who already see Washington as a place where powerful people too often avoid accountability. For Democrats, the Gomez case is especially uncomfortable because the party has spent years presenting itself as more serious about workplace protections, sexual misconduct claims, and ethical standards in government.
Still, Gomez is emphasizing that the matter is personal, consensual, and unrelated to his official duties. The Ethics Committee will now determine whether the allegations go beyond private misconduct and raise questions about House rules or the treatment of congressional staffers.
For now, Gomez’s confession has added another name to the growing list of lawmakers forced to answer for conduct behind closed doors.
And in a Congress already drowning in scandal, dysfunction, and partisan warfare, the latest revelation is another reminder that Washington’s biggest messes are often not just political.
They are personal.
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